Why Do I Feel Rejected So Easily?
Abbie Ames Abbie Ames

Why Do I Feel Rejected So Easily?

If you feel rejected easily, it may be rooted in attachment wounds or childhood emotional neglect. Small relational shifts can activate old fears of disconnection. EMDR therapy and EMDR intensives can help reprocess the stored material that makes rejection feel overwhelming so you can experience relationships with more steadiness and security.

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The Shift in Friendships After Having a Baby No One Talks About
Abbie Ames Abbie Ames

The Shift in Friendships After Having a Baby No One Talks About

It’s common to feel distant from friends after becoming a mom. Motherhood shifts your nervous system, identity, and emotional capacity, and attachment patterns can resurface during this transition. Therapy for moms, including EMDR therapy and EMDR intensives, can help you understand relational changes and reconnect in ways that feel authentic and sustainable.

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Why Do I Shut Down During Conflict?
Abbie Ames Abbie Ames

Why Do I Shut Down During Conflict?

Have you ever gone completely quiet in the middle of an argument and wondered why you couldn’t find your words? Shutting down during conflict isn’t a personality flaw — it’s often a nervous system freeze response rooted in attachment wounds from earlier relationships. In this post, we explore why it happens and how EMDR therapy can help you stay present and use your voice in marriage.

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